How do you know he is the one? “When you find him, you will know”
Well, exactly your question, “HOW?”
How exactly is it possible that you’d meet someone and immediately know if he is the one you have been waiting for, the one you will spend the rest of your living, breathing days with? IT JUST SEEMS SO CRAZY, DOESN’T IT?
Will you be getting butterflies in your tummy or get another anxiety attack? Will he make you want to hold his hands or look at him all day? How will you know?
Well, firstly it will be nothing like “Mai tera hero” where you will be hearing bells ringing when he comes in front of you, so don’t even bother keeping your ears open for that, but instead, follow your heart. Because the heart knows what is wants. It will be nothing but beautiful, something you would want to live again and again for the rest of your life.
For starters, it will be different. It won’t be something you have felt before with anyone else because he is the one and not just another one. From being the best part of the day to the one you look forward to, the most; he will be all of it.
Imagine a cold dreading winter morning, you can’t stop shivering even after wearing layers of jackets and sweatshirts; And all of the sudden the warm sun rays fall on your face giving you immense happiness- he will be the sunshine in your life.
He won’t be someone who will complete you, you are complete all on your own; he will be the one who will accept you completely. You are a chaos, a beautiful one and he will make sure he loves you with everything he has.
He will know it all. He will know your birthday, your star signs, how much you hate school but love it at the same time. He will know your eye color, your scars, your laugh lines and your birth marks. He will know why you are awake at 5 am most of the nights and why you hate the gym but still go every day. He is going to know how you like wearing oversized t-shirts, and how you put on your left shoe first, how you always get annoyed with your hair open and then with them tied at the back. He is going to know about your best friend and your love for ice cream, your dream of becoming a writer and a cardiac surgeon at the same time and your need of quoting verses from movies. He is going to know that you already have picked your wedding flowers, babies name, tiles for your bathroom, your 22nd birthday dress and the color of your bedroom walls. He will know your favorite donuts, how round you want your pancakes to be, how many scoops of ice cream you want on your waffle and that you need help tying your laces. He is going to know, and get annoyed and still accept that you leave your clothes all over the floor and your mascara and lipstick open, take 30 mins to order a burger and your need to check your horoscope! He is going to know all of it. Everything. You, from top to bottom and inside out. He’s going to know every single thing there is to know about you. And you know what? He will still love you.
And that’s when you will know that he is the one.